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Spiritually Speaking Newsletter: A Time for Introspection and Transformation

November 2024


Dear Beautiful Souls, 


Welcome to November's Spiritually Speaking Newsletter!!!!!!


I have some wonderful news to announce. 💕


Happy Solar Return to my Scorpios! Scorpio is a water sign ruled by Pluto, the planet of transformation, power and rebirth. This sign is linked to the cycles of life and death.

Fun fact: My moon and rising signs are Scorpio.


Scorpio: October 23 - November 21

Sagittarius: November 22 - December 21


As the month progresses and the energy transitions into Sagittarius, there's an opportunity to explore these deeper truths with optimism and a sense of adventure. This period is about transforming the insights gained from shadow work into a more enlightened and empowered version of yourself. Sagittarius is a fire sign ruled by Jupiter, that planet of expansion, wisdom and abundance.


November is a month of introspection and transformation, making it an ideal time to engage in shadow work - uncovering and understanding the hidden aspects of ourselves. Shadow work allows us to face, heal, and grow from the parts of ourselves that we often keep hidden. If you're ready to dive into your own journey of self-discovery, consider scheduling a spiritual consultation with me. Together, we can shine light on the area that you may need healing and help you embrace your whole self. Visit my site to book your shadow focused session and begin this powerful journey of transformation.


The Mirror

This ritual aims to confront and release shadow aspects of yourself that no longer serve you.

Bible Verses: Jeremiah 31:3, 1 Peter 2:9, Psalm 139:13-14

Look in the mirror and speak to this shadow self out loud. Analyze this moment.

Shadow: I feel unworthy of love and acceptance.

Affirmation: I am worthy of love just as I am.

I embrace my value and trust in my ability to be loved and to love.


November is also a potent time for connecting with ancestors and honoring those who came before. With holidays like the Day of the Dead and All Saints’ Day, this month encourages us to remember, celebrate, and seek wisdom from our lineage.


The Day of the Dead is a Mexican holiday celebrated on November 1st and 2nd. It honors deceased loved ones, emphasizing remembrance, celebrations, and connection. This holiday views death as a part of life's cycle - celebrating life's beauty and remembering loved ones with joy.


I believe incorporating this practice can be a meaningful addition to anyone's spiritual path. Creating an intentional time for remembrance is a simple way to honor our ancestors. Additionally, this time allows for a time of reflection - reflecting on the lessons we've learned from those who have come before us, inviting them to guide us in our journey ahead.


What does November represent spiritually?

November is often seen as a month of deepening introspection and transformation. With shorter days and a shift toward winter, this is a time for looking inward, reflecting on the past year, and preparing spiritually for new growth.

In the natural world, November represents a time of dormancy as trees shed their leaves, and the land rests. This can be a reminder to let go of anything that no longer serves you and to make space for renewal.


Exploring ancestral wisdom

Ancestral connections can be deeply grounding, offering insights and guidance for navigating current life challenges. To tap into ancestral wisdom, consider creating a small space in your home dedicated to your loved ones who have passed. Include photos, personal items, or symbolic tokens representing their lives.

Practice idea: Write down a question you have, then close your eyes and visualize speaking to an ancestor who can help you. Imagine their advice, guidance, or the emotions they’d convey. Record any thoughts or impressions you receive.


Navigating Change with Grace

November is the perfect month to reflect on change, as nature itself is visibly transforming. As leaves fall and we prepare for winter, the energy of change is tangible, reminding us to embrace the endings in our lives with grace. This time encourages us to welcome transformation by letting go and trusting the process, even if it feels uncomfortable.

In your spiritual practices, focus on how you can align with change in a way that feels supportive rather than resistant.

Ask yourself: What’s leaving my life now? What am I ready to release?

Let go of any habits, beliefs, or relationships that no longer resonate. This can be a time to cleanse your space, clearing clutter both physically and emotionally to make way for new growth.

Practice idea: Write a “release letter” to whatever you’re letting go of — a habit, relationship, or even an aspect of yourself. Burn or bury the letter as a symbolic act of release, allowing yourself to feel lighter and open to change.


November Journal (ideas)

Consider using this time to journal or meditate on the experiences you’ve had throughout the year, focusing on the lessons you’ve learned and how they’ve shaped you.

This is a powerful month for transformation. Emerge Stronger!


  • What habits, thoughts, or relationships no longer align with who I'm becoming?

  • What aspects of myself have I been avoiding?

  • What lessons have I learned this year that I want to carry forward?

  • What am I ready to let go of as I prepare for a new season?

  • What am I truly grateful for in my life right now?

  • What "small blessings" do I often overlook and how can I honor them more?

  • How can I show gratitude for the people, experiences, and opportunities that have come my way this year?

  • What do I feel my ancestors would want me to know or remember as I navigate my current path?

  • How has my family or cultural heritage shaped the person I am today?

  • What qualities or wisdom have I inherited from my family, how can I honor them?

  • What changes am I experiencing now? How can I embrace change gracefully, even if it feels challenging?

  • What past experiences continue to influence my current behavior and emotions? How can I begin to heal from these wounds with compassion?

  • What desires have I suppressed due to fear, judgment, or insecurity?

  • What am I most excited to see transform in my life, and what steps am I taking to support this change?

  • What recurring negative thoughts or behaviors do I notice in myself? How can I transform these patterns into opportunities for growth?

  • What qualities do I want to cultivate within myself in the coming months?

  • What vision do I hold for the next year? What actions can I start now?

  • Who in my life, including myself, do I need to forgive in order to release resentment and allow emotional healing? How would forgiveness change my emotional state?

  • How can I nurture my spiritual growth and deepen my connection with God?



Suggested readings

Ecclesiastes

Esther

In my recent blog post, The Book of Esther: A Spiritual Journey, I take a deeper dive into the Book of Esther. I explore how its themes of courage, diving timing, and purpose can inspire us on our spiritual journey today. As you read, reflects on how God's guidance has shown up in your own life and how you might be called to step forward with courage, just as Esther did. I invite you to check out my reflects on each chapter and consider how Esther's journey might speak to your own path. You'll find the full breakdown on my blog, with insights on each chapter that reveal spiritual lessons relevant for today.


If you have a specific topic or bible chapter you'd like to explore further, consider scheduling a one-on-one session or a Spirituality 101 class. Together, we can delve into the wisdom of scripture from a fresh, spiritual perspective tailored to your journey.


Let's uncover the messages that matter most to you!


Dates to Remember

Daylight Savings Time, fall back 11/3/2024

New Moon 11/1/2024 at 8:47pm EST

The New Moon in Scorpio is excellent for setting intentions related to transformation, healing and uncovering hidden truths.

Full Moon 11/15/2024 at 4:29pm EST

The Full Moon in Taurus encourages grounding and stability.

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Policy Update Notice

Due to a recent increase in last minute cancellations and no shows, I am updating our booking policy to better accommodate our clients and maintain availability for those seeking sessions. Effective immediately, full payment will be required at time of scheduling. Please note that any cancellations will result in forfeiture of the entire session amount, no exceptions.

I appreciate your understanding and continued support as I strive to provide the best possible experience for everyone on their spiritual journey.


Spiritually Speaking Sister Circle

As I stated in October's newsletter last year's Sister Circle event was a powerful gathering, filled with connection, inspiration, and growth. I'm excited to announce that - I've decided to continue this beautiful tradition, expanding our circle and creating even more opportunities for us to support and uplift one another on a monthly basis.

Coming Soon: Sacred Connections: An Open Circle for the Soul

I am excited to introduce Sacred Connections, a monthly gathering - Spiritually Speaking Sister Circle. This open forum is a space where we can come together to share and explore whatever is in our hearts and minds. From navigating grief to celebrating spiritual growth, Sacred Connections is here to support every part of our journey as women with collective wisdom, open conversations, and healing energy.

I am looking forward to hosting additional monthly free events.

Stay tuned - for more details!


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With prayers,

Tikisha Banks 

Spiritual Life Coach | Oracle Reader | Podcast Host

and mortgage girly  


“To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven” - Ecclesiastes 3:1


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